How to Practically Stop People from Hurting You?

Click here if you've ever been hurt by someone

Why does it hurt when someone says something to you? The reason is simple. Somewhere within, you are keeping something which catches fire. All they are doing is lighting it. It causes you immense pain. Have you not kept it, it would have absolutely made no difference even if hundreds of matchsticks are thrown at you. As there is no switch which can be pushed by someone.

We all keep something inside us. Some sort of insecurity which can catch fire from external sources. It burns you and you feel hurt. All this happens so suddenly that you feel its their words which has caused you pain. But no my friend. We are often the cause of our own sufferings. It is easy and in human nature to blame the external source. But it takes great courage to actually accept it was you. The moment you accept it, you become better. You grow out of it. You are no more affected if that situation arise again. Because now you know the reason and you have all the control in your hands to change it.

Throw whatever you are keeping within you. Take your time and understand where it's coming from. Find a solution to it. Most of the time it is very trivial. It was only your inhibition which stopped you from moving towards resolving it. And once you are done, you will feel liberated. As if not a thing affects you any more. That state is priceless in today's world. Everyone wants to get there where they don't give a shit about what people say about them But sadly no one is able to attain that state because they never retrospected if they had the triggers within them.

If you find this helpful then congratulations. You are a better person than what you were yesterday.